Medicating the Pain
Today I have been reflecting on some of the events and interactions of the last year. Not looking back as Lot’s wife did, but trying to sort through some of what I was thinking and feeling. How could...
View ArticleFather’s Day
Soon after I returned to the wife of my youth (as the Proverbs recommend), my daughter, wife and I ended up at Wet ‘n’ Wild. My daughter and I love water parks and could stay until we were both pruned...
View ArticleFather Forgive Me
I wrote most of this blog entry on March 25th but never posted it. Never felt done to me; something was missing. After talking with a friend yesterday, we stumbled onto the one missing fragment that...
View ArticleGod’s Doppler Shift
Ever been standing still when an ambulance or fire truck passes you with its siren wailing? You notice right away that the sound of the siren as it approaches is different that the sound it makes when...
View ArticleBaby Got a Big Ole But
After I had officially gone crazy, confessed to my wife, and sent a resignation letter to my supervisor, I did not lack for people who had an opinion to give me. The spectrum ranged from the woman from...
View ArticleA Touching Moment
Met with a friend last week. Someone who has been on this journey of recovery since the beginning. In my last blog I mentioned my relational desert. As of right now I can think of three people who have...
View ArticleSpiritual Masochism
Masochism is defined as the tendency to derive pleasure from one’s own pain or humiliation. This concept has a spiritual cousin that I’ve seen on display. Spiritual masochism is the feeling of...
View ArticleAn Unstable Rock
I had a couple of interesting conversations over the holiday that both had an element of similarity. In a chat with a young mother, she declared that “my child is my rock.” Not to be outdone, in a...
View ArticleWhat Is Acceptance?
So the servants went out into the streets and gathered all the people they could find, the bad as well as the good, and the wedding hall was filled with guests. – Matthew 22:10 The king had sent out a...
View ArticleThe Power of Unforgiveness
BrianMillerArt.com I am not saying that forgiveness isn’t a tough process. Because it is. Restoration from the pain of lost trust, misused vulnerability or betrayed humanity is intentional and filled...
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